You shouldn't have invited him: "He spends New Year's Eve watching football without talking to anyone."

Between the friend you invite on vacation who turns out to be rude, the friend you lend your couch to as a last resort and who stays longer than expected, or those you invite to a party who make a mess... Sometimes, we regret our generosity. This week, Libé tells you stories where our witnesses really said to themselves: "You shouldn't have invited him." Today, Alice (1), a 37-year-old actress and singer, recalls how her partner was rude to her new friends during a festive evening.

“I was 21 years old and I was returning from a year of studying abroad. At the end of the summer, I saw Thomas (1) again, whom I had met in high school, and I started going out with him. I found him very handsome, very stylish, I was really happy. Especially since I already had him in my sights. Even though we talked a lot together, socially he was a bit wild. I convinced myself that he would change – when you're young, you have illusions!

"At the time, I was renting a room from a very nice Parisian notable and I began to realize that Thomas was not very suited to social situations: when he came to see me, he only answered my landlord's questions with yes or no, without making any effort. On the contrary, I was extremely sociable and I could already imagine him facing my mother, who would not tolerate his laconic answers.

"Since I play basketball, I decide one evening